Most successful
people and organizations have a laser-like focus on accomplishing their most
important thing. Stephen Covey has famously said, “The main thing is to keep the
main the main thing.” In his book The One
Thing, Gary Keller wrote, “Big success comes when we do a few things well.”
For
Christians to be “successful,” is there One Thing that ought to be our object
of a laser-like focus? Out of all the things we could do, is there One Thing that we must do? Is there One Thing that if we fail to do it, the rest
doesn’t really matter? I think there is One Thing and that One Thing is love.
I’ve
never counted for myself, but I’ve read many times that there are 613 commandments in the
Old Testament. When Jesus was asked which one of these 613 was the greatest,
the most important, commandment, he replied: “You shall love the Lord your God
with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the great
and the first commandment.” But he didn’t stop there. He continued, “And a
second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” Love God. Love
others. Then Jesus said something really profound. He said, “On these two
commandments depend all the Law and Prophets.” (Matthew 22:36-40).
Do
you see what makes that statement so profound? If all the Law and the Prophets,
in other words, all the other 611 Old Testament commandments depend on love for God and love for others
then that means that all the other commandments must be built on a foundation
of love. Obedience to the other commandments must be shaped by love. Every
thought, every action, done out of obedience to God’s commandments must first
of all manifest love. Or to put it another way, without love, obedience falls
short of God’s purposes, every time. That sounds a lot like what Paul wrote in
1 Corinthians 13. He said that obedience without love gains nothing and is
nothing (1 Corinthians 13:1-3).
Henry
Drummond, a 19th Century evangelist from Scotland, wrote an essay
called “The Greatest Thing in the World” in which he considered the Ten Commandments
informed by love:
Take any of the commandments. “Thou shalt
have no other gods before me.” If a man love God, you will not have to tell him
that. Love is the fulfilling of that law. “Take not his name in vain.” Would he
ever dream of taking his name in vain if he loved him? “Remember the Sabbath
day to keep it holy.” Would he not be too glad to have one day in seven to dedicate
more exclusively to the object of his affection? Love would fulfill all these
laws regarding God. And so, if he loved man, you would never think of telling
him to honor his father and mother. He could not do anything else. It would be
preposterous to tell him not to kill. You could only insult him if you
suggested that he should not steal—how could he steal from those he loved? It
would be superfluous to beg him not to bear false witness against his neighbor.
If he loved him, it would be the last thing he would do. And you would never
dream of urging him not to covet what his neighbor had. He would rather they
possessed it than himself. In this way, “Love is the fulfilling of the law.” It
is the rule for fulfilling all rules, the new commandment for keeping all the
old commandments, Christ’s one secret to the Christian life.” (Henry
Drummond, The Greatest Thing in the World,
and other selected essays, ed. William R. Webb, Kansas City, MO.; Halmark
Editions, 1967, pp 10 – 11.)
It
is also striking that Jesus elevates love as the One Thing that marks people as disciples. How will others know that
we are his disciple? It is not great preaching. It is not correct doctrine. It
is not building large congregations. It is not dynamic evangelism. It is not
doing good and helping others. It is not even, what I would have guessed, right
worship. All these things are good and even necessary, but the One Thing that shows
that a person is a disciple, that he or she belongs to Jesus, is love. “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one
another: just as I have loved you, you also are
to love one
another. By this all
people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another” (John
13:34-35).
It is no
surprise then that when Paul came in his letter to the Romans to write about
the characteristics of an authentic Christian life he started with love.
The
first 11 chapters of Romans are about doctrine. Paul carefully lays out what
the Christian ought to believe. God exists, things in the world are very wrong and
people are under his wrath (Chapters 1 – 2). All have sinned and are separated
from God (Chapter 3). Being made right with God is a matter of faith (Chapter
4). While we were still sinners, Christ died for us (Chapter 5). Though being
born dead in Adam, we have been made alive in Christ (Chapters 6 – 7). There is
now, therefore, no condemnation for those in Christ Jesus (Chapter 8). God
calls all kinds of people to salvation, both Jews and Gentiles, and is making
one body of them all (Chapters 9 – 11).
Beginning with Chapter 12 Paul writes
about the “so what?” If all that doctrine is true, then, so what? What every-day,
where-life-really-happens, difference should it make in our lives? Verses 9 –
21 in Chapter 12 deal with very practical characteristics in our relations with
others that must mark the life of a believer. You can probably guess which characteristic
heads the list. Love!
Love must be genuine. Abhor what is evil,
cling to what is good. Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one
another in showing honor (Rom.
12:9-10).
Genuine love, informed by turning from evil
and holding onto good, shown in family-like affection, that honors others above
yourself – this is the first characteristic. When it comes to our relationships
with others, it’s our One Thing. It’s the Christian’s most important thing.
In my next post I’ll explore love put into
action in the Christian community.
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